Riley
Stueven
Educational
Experience Essay
At the end of the day, you have to
look back on everything you’ve accomplished. The majority of people would
simply look back on what they succeeded in finishing, while others would look
at the actual experience they went through in getting those things done. Most
don’t realize this, but life is a journey, not just a destination. Every action
you go through alters your being in one way or another, for better or for
worse. Some might even argue that the process of accomplishing your goal and
the experience you get from that is more important than achieving the goal
itself. However, it all depends on the situation.
My greatest learning experience
came from traveling to China with my youth group the summer before I went into
ninth grade. I remember being excited for the trip many months before we
actually had to depart. I had never left the country, so the thought of just
jumping straight into a country like China seemed like a perfect opportunity to
experience something new.
The first thing our group did was
to take Mandarin classes together. We didn’t take very many of them, but the
classes were sufficient enough to give us a sense of the dialect over there.
Not many phrases have stuck with me, the only notable ones I remember being “No
thank you, too expensive”, and “Where’s the restroom?” That was the first time
in my life that I had begun to learn a foreign language, and it was difficult
to say the least.
Packing for the trip was also a new
experience; I had only previously packed for shorter trips around the country,
but this warranted a smaller suitcase, clothes that I wouldn’t be afraid to
lose, and passports and foreign currency. The plane trip was very interesting;
it was a twelve-hour non-stop flight to South Korea, and on that flight had to
learn new ways to keep myself from getting impatient.
After the plane trip, we spent the
next day in South Korea before we took another, albeit shorter, flight to
China, and boy was that a culture shock. Everything from the hundreds of people
speaking a language I didn’t understand to the crowded streets and odd sights
of the city threw me off guard. For the first time in my life, I was the
stranger in a strange land (at least it was a strange land to me). We didn’t
spend very long there, but I got to try my first taste of real Asian food: It
was beyond delicious, but didn’t taste like anything I had eaten previously in
my life.
The next day, we headed to China,
and I can’t remember ever being that jetlagged before. As we wandered the city
streets, it finally dawned on me that America wasn’t the ‘norm’, and other
countries weren’t ‘foreign’. The world is such a huge and infinitely
interesting place with so many interesting people in it, I finally decided to
just bask in the diversity. I was suddenly trying foods I had never dared to
eat before, and joining in events that I would’ve been embarrassed to
participate in before.
That trip was also the first time I
had ever had an interpreter in my life. In the majority of my travels, most
people I had met spoke English. Now I was in a place where very few people
actually spoke English, and even fewer spoke it well. I never realized how
difficult it was to convey a message when you don’t know the language, and body
language and speaking louder didn’t help the situation. I now have a deeper
appreciation for other languages, as I find many to feel almost more poetical
and beautiful.
Half the group that I went with I had
also never met before, so it was interesting to try to get to know them amidst
all the confusion. There was frustration abound, yes, but at the end of the
day, everyone had to really work together in order to accomplish our goal. Our
group’s goal was to help people in need, but I didn’t find out what we were
specifically doing until halfway through the trip. Our goal was to help paint
an old Chinese schoolhouse in one of the region’s more poverty stricken areas.
This was the most eye-opening part of our whole trip. The village we traveled to
was one of the most dilapidated areas I had ever seen. There was no plumbing or
electricity, no motor vehicles, essentially no modern conveniences of any kind.
Staying in that place for a few days and helping them paint their school made
me appreciate all the things we have here in the western part of the world.
There was also the group of Chinese
students we met. They were from the city, and we had met earlier that day. We
were simply going to paint the school with them, but it was decided earlier
that it would be a good opportunity for us to meet and get to know each other.
They were all high school students, and they all conveniently spoke English
(and rather well I might add). Meeting them was a very surreal experience. They
were our same age, and they had many of the same interests and hobbies as us,
despite living half the globe away.
They showed us around to all of
their favorite places; restaurants, opera houses, arcades, bike rides, we did
it all. But just as we were interested to learn about them, they were eager to
learn about us. They thought everything about our culture was fascinating, and
most of them wished to see our country. One interesting thing is that when we
all went to paint the old school, they were just as surprised at the poverty in
the area as we were. We got to know them all pretty well, and since the trip, I
know many of them have actually started to go to school here in the states.
All of the scenery and sights in
China intrigued me to no end. The forests almost had a mythical air to them,
seeming to hide ancient secrets and knowledge. We visited the Great Wall, which
pictures don’t do justice, and saw many buildings and structures which were
older than our whole country. The interesting thing was that there was no
graffiti of any kind on these structures; there was a sense of respect for
these monoliths, and no one felt the need to desecrate them with modern slang
or spray paint. It essentially made me feel very small in the world. These
structures were made long before I was brought into this world, and they will
remain long after I’m gone.
The trip was a revelation; it
allowed me to see that all countries and continents are so varied in their
cultures, and I shouldn’t look at foreign people with disdain; they’re not
weird, they were just born in a different place. We should respect other
peoples’ ideologies and traditions, rather than thinking they’re inferior to
our own simply because they’re different.
I haven’t had the chance to travel
the world since then, but I happily anticipate the day where I get to travel
once again and experience the culture of another land. This experience will
stay with me forever, and I feel like I’m now a better person because of what I’ve
seen and learned.
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